When Maryam was a little girl, she loved going to school.
“As I grew up, I became more fond of studying,” Maryam told The Borgen Project. “I thought that I would become a teacher, doctor, anything — but that I would study for sure.”
When Maryam was in fifth grade, she stopped going to school to work as a maid and help support her parents and three younger siblings. Her mother wanted her to continue her education, but her father did not think it was feasible.
“The circumstances did not allow it, so I had to stop studying,” she said. “There was no other adult to help out. I was the eldest. I saw that the situation at home was difficult, so I started working on my own.”
Now, Maryam is 26 and works as a maid for three households in Karachi, Pakistan. She lives with her husband, whom she married at 17, and their 4-year-old son in a small one-room apartment that has no gas, a leaky roof and a bathroom with no ceiling and a curtain as a door.
Poverty in Pakistan
Every month, Maryam earns Rs 30,000, equivalent to $150. Including her husband’s income as a rickshaw driver, there is just enough to cover their rent of Rs 15,000, rickshaw installment of Rs 20,000 and their son’s school fees and gas cylinder, both Rs 5,000, along with other monthly household expenses.
Maryam said she used to purchase groceries such as flour, sugar, oil, tea leaves, salt and pepper on a monthly basis for up to Rs 15,000, not including staples like rice or lentils. Currently, she buys her groceries in small amounts every day because it is cheaper.
For those living in poverty in Pakistan, sticking to a tight budget forces them to make sacrifices. When her son started school, Maryam said she sold her phone to pay for his uniform, school bag and stationery on top of tuition fees. She also recently purchased a small fridge for Rs 50,000, which cut into her budget for new Eid clothes, even though one of her employers loaned her Rs 37,000 to help pay for it.
“You have to kill your wishes,” Maryam said. “If I have an interest in something, then I have to look after the house first…either the child or the house, nothing else.”
She said her household usually runs well with her income, but she never has money left at the end of the month.
“I get really angry because I work for the whole month and as soon as some money comes into my hands, it all gets spent,” Maryam said. “If I had my own house, I would not have to pay rent or if I had my own rickshaw, I would have saved some of my income. But no, I never have any savings.”
Rising Cost of Living
Sometimes Maryam picks up extra cleaning jobs after work to pay for new shoes, clothes and educational expenses for her child.
“I work in three houses and I am not saving, so I feel like I should work more. But with time, I am losing my strength. I have been doing this work for so long, I get tired,” she said.
When Maryam managed to save some money, she put a down payment of Rs 120,000 on a 120-acre plot of land with the hope of owning a house and started paying monthly installments totaling Rs 170,000. However, she later found out that five other people were also paying for the same property. Although she was refunded her down payment, she lost the money she put toward the installments. Maryam said she did not pursue legal action, even if it would be free, because she is afraid someone will come after her family.
Another time, Maryam spent Rs 150,000 on a hysterectomy operation for her mother. The procedure required confirmation from an MRI scan, which costs Rs 16,000, an expense her family could not afford. Eventually, one doctor was willing to perform the surgery based on the results of an ultrasound.
Lack of Fair Pay
Maryam said her family only knows two professions: maid or rickshaw driver. The same applies to her relatives who completed their education at the matric, or 10th-grade, level.
“The boys are well-educated, but they still drive a rickshaw and the girls are also well-educated, but they still work,” she said. “It is very difficult to find a job in Pakistan.”
After Maryam married, she pursued a long-time interest and learned beauty work at a salon. Even then, she could not land a job because she had only one year of experience in the field. As a maid, Maryam completes various household tasks, including sweeping, mopping, dusting, ironing clothes, cooking, washing dishes and cleaning bathrooms.
One of her employers pays her Rs 9,000 per month, but Maryam said it should be closer to Rs 15,000 based on the size of the house. Another employer pays her Rs 7,000 per month when it should be Rs 18,000 given the workload. Once, Maryam mentioned her low pay to one of her employers but was told that someone else would do the work for less.
Poor Treatment
Maryam said the most challenging part of her job is not the work itself but tolerating insults from her employers.
“Everyone scolds me…. When people scold me, it makes me feel bad,” she said. “I cannot say anything. I stay quiet. I just cry.”
Whenever her employers feel she did not adequately complete a chore, Maryam said they require her to redo it without paying for the extra work.
“They are not paying me for free, nor am I working for free, so why should I have to listen to so many scoldings?” she said. “I am a human being too.”
Maryam said she does not share these struggles with her husband anymore because he would stop her from working, but her income keeps the peace in her home and pays for her child’s education.
Benazir Income Support Program
Maryam said many people in her husband’s family receive financial assistance from the government through the Benazir Income Support Program (BISP). Families living in poverty in Pakistan are eligible for this assistance if they have a monthly salary of less than Rs 50,000.
Every four months, qualified recipients receive Rs 13,000 in cash, which accounts for Rs 3,250 per month. To register, an individual brings their National Identity Card and children’s Child Registration Certificate to a BISP office and fills out a survey to complete the application, which is free.
However, Maryam said she has not signed up because it would be difficult for her to collect the payments. The address on her National Identity Card is for her family’s home in her village, not where she lives and works in Karachi.
“It costs Rs 3,000 to go to the village and again Rs 3,000 to come back. There is no point,” she said.
She was also told that registering for the program is expensive and lengthy. Maryam said her family members paid someone Rs 20,000 to collect their documents and enroll on their behalf. That person also pocketed the first payment her relatives received.
Saverya Foundation UK
Saverya Foundation, United Kingdom (U.K.), is a women’s empowerment charity that provides shelter and training to women living in poverty in Pakistan. Maryam said she may have heard of it but has not used its services.
The organization’s goal is to help women become financially independent by building skills that will allow them to work or start their own business from home. These skills range from computer education to beauty work, sewing, stitching and embroidery. The charity has helped more than 10,000 women in Pakistan.
The Future for Maryam
Maryam said that whenever she comes home tired from a long day at work, she often thinks about opening her own food stall.
“I really want to cook,” she said. “It is better than doing this job. I have to listen to everyone’s scolding here, but I will not have to [over] there. It will be my own work.”
As for her son, Maryam is determined that he stay in school.
“Whatever degree he wants to study, whatever it is, I will make sure that he can do it,” she said. “I could not fulfill my dreams, but my son will fulfill his.”
– Umaymah Suhail
Umaymah is based in Karachi, Pakistan and focuses on Good News and Global Health for The Borgen Project.
Photo: Umaymah Suhail


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